Be on top, Be free

Frequently a person's emotions and intentions are misunderstood by those around them.
Congruity, then, has one unshakable rule and it is this:

“If your gestures, tone and words do not say the
same thing, people will believe the gestures.”

Go up to someone you know, purse your lips and say, "I really like
you," with your eyebrows raised and your arms folded.
Ask them what they think. Even better, go find a mirror and try it.

Well?

You get my point. Your gestures are a giveaway to what you really mean.

The time has surely come for people to move beyond second-, third-, and fourth-rate understaning, towards the first-rate understaning; that will alone deliver them from the World and its netherworldly illusions, hatered and missunderstandings!

What is this FIRST Rate uNdErStAnDiNg?

1. Always think outside the box.

2. See the other party as yourself.

3. Be of open and free mind.

4. Know also that, to be on top you aught to look beneath the surface

5. Ask yourself would i be able to think ill, for the other party,
if NO, then note that the other party would as well not!

Until you hear from me again stay BLESSED!